| V-Day Rant . . . sorry about the excessive cursing XD |
Feb. 9th, 2009|12:23 am |
Is it that important to get a valentine for this holiday?
FUCK NO. VALENTINE'S DAY IS FUCKING POINTLESS.
What do you want for valentines day?
See the question above the one above this one.
I don't want ANYTHING for Valentine's Day. If someone is going to be romantic, I want it to be because they WANT to . . . not because they feel obligated over a stupid fucking holiday. I don't believe that there is just ONE day each year to be romantic . . . it should be every day or at least at random because the mood strikes you to do something nice for your sweetheart.
Do you want flowers for valentines day?
Not FOR Valentine's Day . . . we've been over this, fucker.
What is the best gift for someone?
"Showing them you care everyday instead of just Valentines XD"
^ THIS
Why do we celebrate valentines day?
Because people are lazy asses and want to cram all the romance in their life into one fucking day . . . morons.
That's right, bitches. This is Coconut's "Valentine's Day Is Moronic And Stupid" rant. I mean no offense . . . this is just my views on a holiday that I see no point in.
Overall, my reasoning is a simple question. WHY PICK ONE DAY TO SAY 'I LOVE YOU' AND BE ROMANTIC? I seriously don't understand it. You go out and buy a mass-produced PINK OR RED box of chocolates that says 'be mine' or something equally as dumb for your girl and here I'm staring at you, shaking my head and wondering 'is this out of obligation for the holiday or do they really mean that?' Buying roses and chocolates for your woman/mandude on V-Day does NOT strike me as romantic. Buying your sweetheart REAL chocolates and HAND-PICKED roses with a handwritten note and leaving them when you leave for work in the morning strikes me as romantic . . . why? Because it's a SURPRISE and you did it just because you felt like it.
A 'Valentine's Day' dinner doesn't strike me as romantic or special, either . . . if you want to go out to dinner or make your darling something special, do it because you're kind and sweet and generous because you want to give them a break from cooking and treat them like they're the greatest thing in the world. Valentine's Day dinners are OVERDONE. Seriously. Everyone does a special dinner for Valentine's Day. Be unique and PICK A DIFFERENT DAY.
Honestly . . . Valentine's Day is WAAAAAAY overrated. When I have a special someone, I like to say and show them how much I love them every chance I get. No, seriously, ask Vandigo . . . she'll tell you that I say 'I love you' WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too much. But I mean it more every time. And I wish it could be more than just words, honestly. Going to have to fix that . . . ANYWAYS.
I'm a hopeless romantic, at heart. I like to go out into the middle of nowhere and look at the stars (well, not that I could do that in Seattle, but you get it). I like just sitting in comfortable silence and basking in each other's presence. I like giving little gifts that have more sentimental value than they let on because of what they symbolize to me. I like going out into the garden, if I have one, and picking flowers and surprising my love. I like calling and texting JUST to say 'I love you and I wanted to see how you were doing'. Little things AT RANDOM. February 14th or no, I am spontaneously overcome with the urge to express my emotions towards the person I love. Sue me.
LIKE THAT ONE POST I MADE ABOUT HOW MUCH I BELIEVE I AM COMPLETELY AND UTTERLY IN LOVE WITH VANDIGO? YOU REMEMBER THAT ONE? IT WASN'T VALENTINE'S DAY THEN. I WAS JUST OVERCOME WITH EMOTION AND FELT THE NEED TO EXPRESS IT TO THE ENTIRE WORLD.
Another illustration of I'm not the only one:
I want to be a hell of a lot more than friends with you. Problem with actually doing that right now is the distance. I am, oddly enough, kind of a romantic. I like taking people out to dinner randomly shopping to the middle of nowhere just to look at stars. Theres really only a couple of people I ever did that with, and one of them I was in love with, so yeah. I'm a hopeless romantic. Trust me, if we were within a days driving distance of each other, I'd probably be at your house like all the time cooking for you making sure you sleep and eat snuggling taking you places just cause I can because in all honesty, I WANT to do these things with you and for you. Because I love you. I just need to get the fuck out of colorado first. XD
YES, I KNOW I'VE POSTED THAT BEFORE, BUT THAT'S NOT THE EFFING POINT. The point is, that is, by FAR, the single most romantic ranty thing I have ever heard from someone. And guess what . . . IT WASN'T ON VALENTINE'S DAY PEOPLE. And if Vandigo and I were to have half those things . . . I can assure you that it wouldn't be on Valentine's Day. It'd be because we felt like it (yeah, I am assuming here, stfu).
Now . . . I'm not ranting because "ZOMFG I DON'T HAVE A FUCKING VALENTINE BAWWW". I'm ranting because love shouldn't be restricted to one day . . . you know? "Oh here, honey, I'm buying you flowers and chocolate and this gadget thingy and we're going to dinner because the calendar says to." Does that sound romantic? FUCK NO. I DO NOT WANT THAT.
Here's the thing . . . to me, February 14th isn't JUST another day. It's Vandy's birthday . . . birthdays are a semi-big deal to me. But it's not a holiday as far as I am concerned.
Half of this rant PROBABLY doesn't make any sense . . . but . . . I'm fucking tired, okay.
Oh, and Vandigo, I'm sorry I used you as an example but . . . actually . . . I'm not. I love you <333
ALSO: Am I the only one that notices that if you pronounce "V-Day" wrong it sounds like "D-Day"? FUNNY SHIT. 8D
EDIT: x-posted like a motherfucker because I'm a bitter and spiteful bitch like that. |
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